“[B]eing” a self is inextricably bound to “doing” a “caring self,” […] “both a performance and a technique used to generate valuations of responsibility and respectability.” […] [T]he mother experiences [a] different subjectivity as a rejection of her own identity and thus may feel impelled to quash it […].
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